Dear Carlos…i had the same experience after my father passed away…many times i tried to talk to him or ask his opinion,but this experience did not last..eventually they will become part of the past in our mind .this transformation will take long time of course but it will happen.i am a loss expert,unfortunately,as i lost my father,my son,my brother and three very dear friends.the loss will leave a scar inside you but it will become more comfortable..wish you the best
Carlos, it's your opening paragraph that I've been thinking about for several days. I believe the death of a child does reshape a parent. I also believe most parents hope it shapes them into a better version of themselves, in order to give meaning to their child's death. Although you have said before: it doesn't counterbalance.
The rest of your essay has provided me with a goal: to remember and treasure my own daughter with mostly happy, pleasant memories.
Dear Carlos…i had the same experience after my father passed away…many times i tried to talk to him or ask his opinion,but this experience did not last..eventually they will become part of the past in our mind .this transformation will take long time of course but it will happen.i am a loss expert,unfortunately,as i lost my father,my son,my brother and three very dear friends.the loss will leave a scar inside you but it will become more comfortable..wish you the best
Carlos, it's your opening paragraph that I've been thinking about for several days. I believe the death of a child does reshape a parent. I also believe most parents hope it shapes them into a better version of themselves, in order to give meaning to their child's death. Although you have said before: it doesn't counterbalance.
The rest of your essay has provided me with a goal: to remember and treasure my own daughter with mostly happy, pleasant memories.